Rifqa is for adults (18 or older) meeting people on their own terms: marriage, something serious, casual dating or friendship. Members who pass a live selfie check meet each other; the others meet only in a separate, clearly labelled unverified section.
Be honest, be respectful, and keep other people safe. Harassment, scams, sexual content outside the 18+ area, and anything involving minors lead to removal.
You own what you post. We use it only to run Rifqa, never for advertising, and we don't sell it.
1. This agreement
These Terms of Use are an agreement between you and the operator of Rifqa ("we", "us"). They apply to the Rifqa website and app, including chat rooms, the chaperone portal and support. By creating an account, or by accepting a chaperone invitation, you agree to them. The Privacy Policy explains what we do with your information and is part of this agreement.
If you don't agree, don't use Rifqa.
2. Who can use Rifqa
You must be at least 18 years old. We check the date of birth you give, and the live selfie check and the 18+ age check look at age too: an account that may belong to someone under 18 is held out of Rifqa while a person checks, and removed if so.
You may have one account, for yourself only. Accounts can't be shared, sold or transferred.
You must not use Rifqa if we have removed you before, or if the law where you live doesn't allow you to.
To be in the verified section, where everyone has proven who they are, you must pass the live selfie check: a selfie in a pose we choose, compared with your profile photo. Without it you are in the unverified section (section 8).
3. Your account and its security
Keep your password, the codes we email you and your recovery codes to yourself. Whoever has your email inbox or your recovery codes can take control of the account, so store the recovery codes somewhere private.
Tell us straight away if you think someone else has used your account. Every security email we send has a "this wasn't me" link that signs every device out and locks the account until you set a new password.
You can sign up without an email, with a private username that only you see. Your recovery codes are then the only way back into your account if you lose your password or your device. We can't restore access for you, and neither can support, so keep the codes safe.
If you add a passkey, anyone who can unlock the device or password manager that holds it can sign in. Getting back in with a recovery code, or using "this wasn't me", removes every passkey.
You're responsible for what happens on your account, unless it was used without your permission and you told us promptly.
4. Your profile
Use your own photos and true information. Photos must show you, and your main photo must show your face.
No contact details, links, social media handles or advertising in your profile.
Religion and sect are optional. Only add them if you want to.
Photos and profile text are checked before others can see them. Some are checked automatically; unclear cases are checked by a person.
5. Community rules
When you use Rifqa, you must not:
harass, threaten, stalk, blackmail, shame or intimidate anyone, pressure anyone into anything sexual, or keep contacting someone who has said no;
send sexual or explicit messages, or ask others for them, anywhere except an accepted conversation in the 18+ area (section 9); send or ask for sexual images anywhere;
post or ask for anything involving a person under 18, role-play included;
offer, buy or sell sex or sexual services, or ask for money for them;
ask for money, gifts, investments or financial details, or run any scam;
pretend to be someone else, or use photos of another person;
post hate speech, or attack people for their religion, sect, ethnicity, nationality, gender or looks;
share someone else's private information, photos or conversations without their permission;
advertise, sell, recruit or spam, or use Rifqa for any business purpose;
use bots, scrapers or automated tools, or try to get around our security or safety features, including by using a VPN or a fake location when signing up;
do anything illegal where you or the other person live.
6. Matches and messages
When a woman and a man match, she sends the first message. If she doesn't within 24 hours, the match ends.
Messages are checked automatically before they are delivered: for scams, harassment, threats and anything involving minors everywhere, and for explicit content everywhere except the 18+ area. A message that may break these rules is held, and only you see it until a moderator decides.
If you give a chaperone permission to read your messages, they can see new messages in your match conversations from then on. Both people in a match can see that a chaperone is involved.
7. Chat rooms
Members can create public or private chat rooms, for everyone, for women only or for men only, within their own section. In a room you are known only by the name you choose for that room.
No links, email addresses, social media handles or phone numbers in rooms. To talk privately, send a message request.
A room's owner and admins can set rules, mute, remove and ban members, and pin messages. They must use these tools fairly and within these terms.
The person who creates a room is responsible for its name, description and rules.
We can remove messages, close rooms and remove members from Rifqa if a room breaks these terms.
8. The unverified section
If you don't take the live selfie check, or don't pass it, you are in the unverified section. There you can use Discover, matches, chat rooms and message requests with other unverified members only: the verified and unverified sections never see each other.
Everyone there is labelled "unverified": nobody there has proven who they are or how old they are. Take extra care.
Daily limits on likes, messages, message requests and rooms are lower there, and messages with links wait for a moderator.
Safety check-ins and chaperone invitations, which send email to people outside Rifqa, are only for the verified section.
Passing the selfie check moves you to the verified section. Matches and conversations you started in the unverified section carry on; you leave its chat rooms.
9. The 18+ area (where available)
Rifqa may offer a separate 18+ area in countries where the law allows it. It isn't available everywhere, and at times it may not be available anywhere. Where it is:
You can enter only while both your location and your internet connection are in a country where it's open, without a VPN, proxy or private relay. We check this each time you use it.
You must pass a one-time age check: a live selfie checked only for your age, never compared with your photos. If our AI isn't sure, a person checks it. An account that may belong to someone under 18 is held out of all of Rifqa while we check.
You must accept the area's own rules. Others there see only a nickname you choose, a few lines you write, your age, your gender and whether you're verified: never your photos, name, location or dating profile.
A conversation starts as a request with one message, which must follow the normal rules. Once the other person accepts, explicit messages between the two of you are allowed.
Never allowed there, as everywhere: anything involving anyone under 18 (role-play included), anything without consent, threats, pressure or blackmail, and buying or selling sex. We remove it and the account, and report it to the authorities where the law requires.
Phone numbers, links, email addresses, social media handles and other apps can't be shared there.
Messages there are checked by AI like everywhere else, and moderators read the ones it holds back or that are reported.
You can pause your 18+ profile or leave the area at any time. Leaving deletes your 18+ profile and ends your 18+ conversations. We may remove anyone from the area.
Rifqa doesn't charge for the 18+ area or earn money from it.
10. Meeting people safely
We check identities in the verified section with the live selfie and moderate what people post, but we can't guarantee who anyone is or how they will behave. You alone decide whether to meet someone, and you are responsible for your own safety.
Meet in public, tell someone you trust, and use the safety check-in if you like. A check-in only sends emails to the contact you choose. It is not an emergency service: in an emergency, call your local emergency number.
Report anyone who breaks these rules. Reports are confidential: the person you report isn't told who reported them.
11. What you post
You keep ownership of your photos, text and messages. You allow us to store, copy, resize, blur, display and moderate them only as needed to run Rifqa for you and the people you choose to share them with. That permission ends when you delete them or your account, apart from the copies we must keep for the periods in the Privacy Policy.
We don't use your content for advertising, and we don't sell it.
Only post content you have the right to share.
12. Automated features
Rifqa uses AI to check messages, photos and profile text, to check your selfie and, for the 18+ area, your age, to suggest people and conversation openers, and to answer support requests first. Suggestions and drafts can be wrong; nothing is sent in your name without you choosing to send it.
Automated checks can hold a message, reject a photo, or approve or reject a selfie or an age check in clear cases. Anything unclear goes to a person. If you think an automated decision is wrong, ask for a person to look at it through Help & support.
13. What happens if the rules are broken
We can remove content, hold messages, limit features, suspend or permanently remove an account, or close a room when we reasonably believe these terms or the law have been broken, or to protect someone's safety. When it's safe and lawful, we tell you what happened and why.
You can ask us to look again at a decision through Help & support. A person will review it.
We may keep a protected record (a keyed code, not the address itself) of the email of a removed account, so it can't simply sign up again. An account without an email leaves no such record.
14. Leaving Rifqa
You can download your data and delete your account at any time under Me → Settings. Deletion happens 7 days after you ask, and you can cancel it until then. After that your account and profile are erased, except for what the Privacy Policy says we keep.
15. The service
Rifqa is free to use. We work to keep it available, safe and accurate, but we provide it as it is: we can't promise it will always be available, free of errors, or that you will find a match.
We may change or stop features. If a change significantly affects you, we'll tell you in the app first.
16. Responsibility
We are not responsible for what other members say or do, on Rifqa or when you meet them, or for losses that we could not reasonably have foreseen, as far as the law allows.
Nothing in these terms limits responsibility that can't be limited by law, or takes away rights you have under the consumer or data protection laws of the country where you live.
17. Changes to these terms
When we change these terms in a meaningful way, we update the date at the top and ask you to accept the new version in the app before you continue. If you don't accept it, you can download your data and delete your account.
18. Law and disputes
These terms are governed by the law of the place where Rifqa's operator is established, without taking away the protection of the mandatory laws of the country where you live. Please contact us first, through Help & support in the app, so we can try to resolve any problem.
19. Contact
Questions about these terms: contact us through Help & support in the app.